A SOULS’ CONNECTIONS BETWEEN DESTINY AND LESSONS
I try to write a blog post at least once a month, but sometimes this can be a challenge. I like to let ideas flow into my head, so when this quote appeared I thought it would be a fascinating piece to write. “When we break our connection with our soul, do we lose touch with reality?”
I found an amazing YouTube video on this subject narrated on a theory by Carl Jung called “The Energy of Two Souls Aligns, No Force Can Keep Them Apart”. Carl Jung was a Swiss psychiatrist known for his development of analytical psychology.
Carl Jung – When the Energy of Two Souls Aligns, No Force Can Keep Them Apart
Carl Jung believed in a theory called synchronicity, meaning alignment. We don’t always understand why some people are placed in our lives, while others are only in our lives for a short amount of time. This may be through death, break-up, or a mutual decision to leave the relationship. The relationship doesn’t have to be romantic, it can be a friendship, family member, our children, and even our parents. But for whatever reason, our souls connect with some but not others.
Some connections are destiny, whereas others are lessons. “You attract what you haven’t healed”. Our destiny in this life is to find love. Some of us are hopeless romantics. We want love so deeply that we will almost go to all costs to find it, even if it is at the expense of our own healthy inner-self. Love is a frequency which attracts us to people that we need in our lives at that time. Sometimes these relationships may be healthy and other times not so much. When we find that perfect person that makes us whole, that is our destiny. When we find that person that feeds our inner securities, that is a lesson.
Destiny is finding that connection between another person – our souls find each other because we are made up of energy and energy is directly proportional to its frequency. We may be attracted to that person in a healthy fashion. We feel at peace with them. They make us whole, not complete, but whole. We feel at home with them. True love to say. We are a mirror. What we see in that mirror reflects who we become. Are we a mirror of denial and fear showing us our truth? Or are we mirrored with a self-confident, strong individual?
When a connection becomes a lesson is when our unhealed traumas find love. We are attracted to our traumas, either to find healing within that other person or simply a mirror of ourselves. Ask yourself, “what did this awaken in me that I needed healing?” The mirror never lies because our triggers, brought on by our traumas, are messages to ourselves, reflecting to us. What we seek in others is often the thing we are withholding from ourselves. If we are afraid of abandonment, our fear of this will attract us to someone who will leave us. If we are desperate to find love, without fully loving ourselves and being okay with being alone, we will attract people who don’t know how to love us.
In order for us to be truly comfortable in our own skin, content, and at peace, we must learn to heal from our past traumas and triggers so that the energy we put out there into the universe is one of the same we wish to receive.
Certain people who cause us pain aren’t put into our lives to cause us suffering. They are put into our lives as a lesson for healing. Look at a break-up, death or end of a relationship as the role it was intended. Was it destiny or a lesson? Are we mirroring our pain into the choices we make in our relationships or choosing people that our souls’ frequencies have connected to? Love shouldn’t be hard. Pain isn’t a punishment; it is a teacher.
I will finish with this quote that I love from Carl Jung, “Intensity without stability is a fire that burns everything down. True love doesn’t feel like an addiction; it feels like an alignment of our souls.”
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